Midlife and ADHD

In midlife, we usually face a ‘maximum load’ - high-pressure work, ageing parents and growing children. When you have an ADHD brain, this level of constant juggling leads to cognitive overload.

You aren't failing; your ‘internal processor’ is simply being asked to do too much at once.

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The hormone factor

Hormones like oestrogen and testosterone help our brain chemicals work correctly. In midlife these hormones start to shift and, when they do, ADHD symptoms usually get worse:

  • brain fog: a drop in hormones can make your thinking feel ‘cloudy’ or slow

  • changing chemistry: this happens to everyone, but in different ways. It might be perimenopause, natural ageing or shifts in gender-affirming hormone therapy (GAHT)

  • the result: when your chemistry changes your old coping habits often stop working. This can lead to a sudden sense of burnout or ‘losing your edge’

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Support for everyone

Midlife doesn't look the same for everyone. Whether you are cisgender, trans, or non-binary, your hormones play a massive role in how your ADHD shows up.

I provide a space where we look at the facts of your biology and the reality of your life. We work together to build new tools that actually fit who you are today.

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